Become a good talker
For many, this is the most difficult part of the job. You will hear many of the same questions. What’s your real name? Why are you doing this job? Are your breasts real? What do your parents think? Do you have a boyfriend?
Do not let anyone press you to talk about what your personal business is. If you can counteract passive aggressiveness with courteous assertiveness, you will succeed in eliminating potential clients who are more problematic than they are worth.
A simple: “Have you been here before?” or “What did you do today?” It can go a long way. The hustle and bustle of a stripper is similar to that of speed dating: you are trying to gather information and meet a complete stranger in a very short time. Some people want to talk, others want to hear you talk, and many people will be happy to open up once you establish a relationship.
Avoid the drama
Avoid the hierarchy. Every competitive industry has co-workers stabbing their backs. Be kind to everyone, do not repeat the gossip and in this way everything will be harmony around you.
Your time and work have a price, because that is how transactions work. Practice saying, “No, thanks, I will not do that.” The clientele will try to bargain for the prices, touch it more than allowed, or simply refuse to pay.
Remember that your time is an asset! You, as a worker, can refuse the service, especially if someone indicates that you do not respect the rules of the club or your personal limits. Get the money first if you can. And if the guy asks (and they will), “Do not you trust me?” That’s when you smile and hit your lashes twice. “I do not trust anyone, honey.”
Practice good bustle habits
Stay away from your cell phone. It’s just a bad seller. And do not take the rejection personally. Some nights, people will not be nice to you. Understand that your deficient behavior is a reflection of your insecurity or self-internalized problems.
It takes more than pole dance classes and costume selfies to become a stripper.
Stripping is a competitive sales job in a highly stigmatized environment.
Learn to dance
Strippers need to be able to dance, so if you want a concert in this industry, you’ll need at least a couple of basic moves. YouTube hosts hundreds of videos, especially if you do a search for “pole dancing dance start”. The eye contact and the smile will help you a lot.
Always remember to point your toes when you dance so you do not look like a naked adult playing in a playground.
Find a club where you feel comfortable
Take a look at the clubs with which we work in Europe, among which you can find highly potential cities to earn a lot of money dancing, in addition to each club has different requirements and rules, so take your time so you can choose the what’s more convenient for you
Already in the club you can ask more in depth about the rules of the place, some of the most frequent questions are: Are the strippers in the club protected? Do security people accompany them safely to their cars after the shifts are done? Are there rules regarding touching?
Most clubs will ask you to complete a form, so please try to answer it in the most simple and clear way, as well as attach some photos of your person where your best attributes are seen.
Discover your brand
After being accepted by a club, you have the task of discovering how you want to portray yourself to encourage the greatest amount of income.
What kind of fantasy are you selling? Track model? Girl next door? To a large extent, the way you style and behave yourself will define your customer base.
If you dress like a professional dominatrix, you will attract men who expect you to act dominantly. If she wears little makeup, barely has tattoos and maintains the color of her hair, she will attract a wider audience that will probably see her as less assertive.
Before choosing your outfit, discover what the club requires. Do you need to change clothes every hour? Can you wear the same outfit for years until it crumbles? How tall should your heels be?
Whatever your outfit, make sure the outfits are resistant to alcohol stains … and can be easily removed. Avoid complex strip artifacts; because the time it takes to untangle a five-pointed star harness literally takes away the claws of the clock when it could be rushing to do dances. Find what works for you.